08 September 2008

this I believe

Chestnut Rau, in her blog entry from the 28th of July, This I Believe, had some very good thoughts that sparked some things I've been noodling with. So, in my usually belated fashion, here are my own thoughts, over a month later.

I am a real person in both physical life and the metaverse. I am the same person, the same self, but embodied in different ways in the different worlds. My avatars in the various worlds are me just as much as my physical body is me. And, yet, there are differences because of the differences between the worlds.

I do not choose to share everything about my physical life in the metaverse, and the reverse is also true. This does not make me any less real or honest in either place. I have no obligation to share "real world" information about myself with you, and I ask that you respect that. I accept that others make different choices, and I respect those choices. If you share things with me in confidence, I will keep that confidence, and I expect you to do the same for me.

If you cannot agree with what I have said, that's fine, but in that case, we will remain only passing acquaintances. I am far from perfect, I know, but it is not your role to "fix" me.

Finally, I believe in the Golden Rule, treat others as well as you wish to be treated. I don't always follow it perfectly, but I do try.